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Swinging in South Africa

Swinging in South Africa

The South African swinging scene is huge and growing by the day! Over recent years swingers clubs have sprung up in every major city in South Africa. Johannesburg, Pretoria, Cape Town and Durban as well countless private house parties hosted by swingers for swingers. Our site offers a safe and secure way to connect discreetly in a trusted and safe environment with other swingers, couples and singles from all over South Africa. The swinging lifestyle can be an extremely intimidating environment for newcomers so lets us help guide you into the super sexy world of swinging and give you the key to unlocking South Africa’s best kept dirty little secret!

Is Swinging in South Africa safe?

Is Swinging in South Africa safe?

There are many misconceptions when it comes to swinging both in South Africa and around the world. The swinging community in South Africa has a very well-defined set of rules and If you were to ask swingers in South Africa you would no doubt be told that safety and discretion are the two most important rules. Also, ladies rule… without exception ladies call the shots and set the rules of play. Our site allows swingers and potential swingers to connect without risk and chat until they are comfortable meeting or attending a swinger’s party. Swingers parties and encounters are far more sophisticated and upmarket than many expect. If you are expecting to just walk in and start shagging, you will be horribly disappointed. This lifestyle is about meeting and connecting with likeminded people and exploring your wildest fantasies. If you just want to get laid… go to bar ;-)

Is Swinging just for couples?

Is Swinging just for couples?

Most definitely NOT! Many believe that you need to be a couple to join the swinging lifestyle which couldn’t be further from the truth. We all have different sexual fantasies which change and evolve over time. On our site you will find married swinger couples looking for a single lady or gent to join them. You will also find single ladies looking for gents and gents looking for ladies. Most swinger’s parties in South Africa are attended by couples and singles to make sure that everyone’s fantasies are catered for. The rules are always the same however, ladies are in charge and they set the play rules. So don’t be put off if you are a single male or female looking to experiment with a couple or single, there is something for everybody at Adult Land!!